Anja, Ex-Christian, Germany (part 4 of 4)
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Description: Over a period of two and a half years, this university student grew to take Islam very seriously. Part 4.
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_001.jpg) Heide herself was still a quite new Muslim. Nevertheless
she did already know her way around the Islamic community in our City. She
used to do everything with full heart and power. She was already being
considered as a teacher for an Islamic school. On our way to the meeting she
told me, what I had to expect:
“The group consists of about 30 women of German and
Turkish origin. They meet once a week in the facilities of a Turkish Islamic
organization. The group leader, Maryam, is a German Muslimah of about 50 years
of age. She has lived some years with her husband in Turkey, where they both
participated in a lot of Islamic activities. Maryam, who by now is widowed,
does engage in Islamic activities in Germany as well. She holds speeches on
Islamic subjects and has founded this women’s group. During the meeting Maryam
will held a lesson on Islam, and then those women, who feel like it, stay a
little longer to chat. We bring tea and cake along.”
This week the cake was Heide’s turn. It took its time
in the oven and Heide had been a little late. So she was speeding up. “Maryam
isn’t all too happy with people coming late.” Unfortunately we didn’t find any
free parking space close to the building. So Heide just drove into the yard. We
were lucky. One of the parking cars was just about to leave and a friendly man
with Turkish appearance gave us signals to help her get the car into that free
space.
The crowd was fascinating for me. “All are going to the
meeting?” Heide laughed: “That would be nice.” Of course not everyone was
going to the meeting. Heide explained to me, that every weekend the place was
that crowded, as the Turkish organization held its own activities.
The German language meeting was held in a separate part
of the building. When we entered the hall, we were already greeted tumultuous:
“Hi, Khadija!” “How are you today?” “Oh, did you bring one of your delicious
cakes?” “The others are in the kitchen!” “Maryam is about to start the
lesson!” Women with covered hair and long dresses passed us. And again and
again I heard the Islamic greeting: “As-Salaamu Alaykum!” - “May God protect
you and give you security!”
I was included in the friendly welcome and kissed on
both cheeks. Guests were welcome! The women thought it was great that someone
dared to enter the “lion’s den” to see for herself, what the Muslims are like.
This meeting appeared to be not only for German speaking Muslim women, but also
a contact group for women interested in Islam. So I seemed to be at the right
place.
We really were late. The lesson started right away. Heide-Khadija
placed the cake in the kitchen, and then we entered the lecture room. The long
room was covered with gray fitted carpet. There wasn’t any furniture but a
little bookshelf at the wall. The women were sitting in a circle on the floor.
They had left their shoes outside, as it is customary in mosques and Muslim
homes.
Maryam, the group leader, had placed several books in
front of her. She was a corpulent lady with bright blue eyes that glanced
friendly from under the simple white scarf. This day she talked about the
continuity of history as documented in Qur’an. About the different prophets,
that all brought the same message over and over. The lesson didn’t contain too
much news for me. Islam recognizes most prophets of the Old and New Testament.
Some of the details of the stories differ, but the basis thought is always the
same. God sends prophets to remind the people of his message.
More interesting to me than the lesson were the
listeners, that more or less concentrated followed the lecture. “Isn’t it
surprising, that the message of God again and again was forgotten?” For some
of the women the information seemed to be new. What surprised me? “In Qur’an
there is a chapter that puts the stories of the prophets into an overall
context. Who knows what chapter I am talking about?” There were women of
every age, many of German origin, some Turkish girls, obviously still at school
that whispered in each other’s ears and kept leaving and reentering the room and
this distracted Maryam so she said: “If you don’t want to listen, just stay
outside!” All women were covered. They were wearing scarves in all colors and
shades, simply tied or elaborately wrapped, or decorated with lace. Some had
pulled the scarf down on the forehead. Others were showing their hair. “Always
when the people had problems, they turned to God, and later they figured, they
wouldn’t need Him anymore.” Some women had brought small children. One
discovered the light switch as a fun game and didn’t want to play with anything
else. “Please, could someone take the child away from that light switch?” Finally
the mother took the loudly protesting child into the kitchen, where he
discovered the cake, which kept him busy at least a quarter hour. But when
there came some phone calls for several of the women and a Turkish girl wanted
to know how many cups tea and coffee she should prepare and how long it would
take till we’d finish, Maryam had had enough. “We’ll go on from here next
week, and now we’ll have tea.” So finally I got a chance to talk to the women.
They right away took me in. “After all, we are all sisters.” “Do you drink
coffee or tea?” “Have some cake!” “So, how did you like it?” Soon we were in
the middle of a lively conversation. Of course everybody wanted to know, who I
was, and what brought me here to a Muslim meeting. Maryam talked about how
long it had taken her faith to grow. “But I never have regretted my decision
for Islam.” Heide-Khadija on the other hand hadn’t known so much about Islam
when she became Muslim. But: “Till today I have been only positively
surprised.” What had attracted her was the “healthy Islamic way of life”; abstinence
of all kinds of drugs. Prayer and fasting as exercise for body, mind and soul.
Hygienic commands. All this made sense to her as a teacher for biology and
sport.
Maryam confirmed, that the regular prayers had done her
back a lot of good. And then she talked about her time in Turkey and tried to
explain to me Turkish history. A subject I still don’t know much about. At
that time I was hopelessly lost. On this day I got to know quite a few women.
And all told me their personal stories about how they came to Islam.
Hamida after her divorce had become friends with a
Turkish couple and on that way got to know and love Islam. Her 15-year-old
daughter Nina had kept her Christian religion, though not really practicing. She
had accompanied her mother to the meeting.
Fatima-Elizabeth, in her mid twenties, studying to
become a teacher, had some years ago worked on a vacation job. She had worked
in a factory side by side with a German Muslima. Fatima-Elizabeth’s family was
Catholic, both parents religious instructors. They were quite shocked when
they learned that her daughter embraced Islam. The shock had faded away during
the last years and with goodwill on both sides the living together worked out
fine.
Fatima-Elizabeth’s friend Sabine, a nurse, who came to
Islam through her husband, wasn’t that lucky. Her father rebuked her from the
house because of her headscarf. There were mothers, housekeepers, students, a
secretary, and a dental laboratory assistant. The women were single, married,
divorced. Husbands if existent, came from Turkey, Lebanon, Yemen, Morocco and
other countries. Some women had taken an Islamic name, others hadn’t. Actually
the women had only one thing in common. And that was their religion, Islam. But
that seemed to fulfill them, yes, to be the guiding line in their lives. “Islam
is the frame, in which we live.”
That day I learned two things. For one I discovered,
that the frame Islam sets isn’t so narrow as I had expected. There is no
standardized Muslim. A Muslim is just a person, who took a decision for God. These
women had embraced Islam. But they had stayed themselves.
And secondly I realized for the first time, that you never
finish learning. Now I had met all these women that were so faithful, though
they didn’t know “everything” there is to know. Knowledge isn’t all. The
important thing is to have firm belief.
“It was We Who created man, and We know what suggestions his
soul makes to him: for we are nearer to him than (his) jugular vein.” (Quran 50:16)
Some weeks later I took my personal decision for God and
Islam. After 2-½ year of learning I embraced Islam. What finally led me to
this step was the thought: “If I die right now and stand before God, how can I
explain to Him, why I haven’t become Muslim?” When I couldn’t come up with a
reasonable answer anymore, I decided on the only logical thing to do and testified:
“There is no God worthy of worship but Allah, and Muhammad is His prophet.”
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