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“And among His signs is that He created for you mates from
among yourselves; that you may dwell with them in serenity and tranquility. And
He has put love and compassion between your hearts. Truly in that are signs
for those who reflect.” (Quran 30:21)
‘Islam’s appeal, wherever it has triumphed, has been in
its simplicity. It requires submission to some basic, straightforward rules
which are easily kept, and in return it offers that most wonderful and rare
commodity, peace of mind ... its discipline, safety and certainties have an
appeal for girls lost in the churning seas of permissiveness, whose own families
have been weakened by the crumbling of the two-parent family, the absence of
fathers and the impermanence of husbands, if there are husbands in the first
place rather than boyfriends and “baby-fathers”. And in most societies it is
the women who sustain religions in the home and among children.’ (Peter
Hitchens, Will Britain Convert to Islam? Mail on Sunday, 2/11/03)
“…They (your wives, O men) are a garment for you and you (men)
are a garment for them…” (Quran 2:187)
Sex itself is not taboo in Islam. On the contrary,
lawful sexual relations are regarded as deeds of charity! Renowned scholar and
former nun, Karen Armstrong, writes:
‘Mohammed certainly did not think that women were
sexually disgusting. When his wife had her period he used to make a point of
reclining in her lap, of taking his prayer mat from her hand, saying for the
benefit of his disciples, “Your menstruation is not in your hand.” He would
drink from the same cup, saying, “Your menstruation is not on your lips” ... The
harsh sexual punishments meted out to sexual offenders in some Islamic
countries is because sexuality is valued and the ideal has been debased, not,
as in the past in the West, because sexuality is abhorrent.’ (The Gospel According
to Woman, 1986:2)
The Church’s traditional justification for man’s
authority is one it inherited from Judaism: the inherent evil of woman! According
to the bible, Satan seduced Eve to disobey God by eating from a forbidden tree
and Eve, in turn, seduced Adam to eat with her. When God rebuked Adam for his
disobedience, Adam blamed Eve, and so God condemned her:
“I (God) will greatly increase your pains in
childbearing; with pain you will bear children. Your desire will be for your
husband and he will rule over you.” (Genesis 3:16)
It was this image of Eve as a deceiving temptress that
left a negative legacy for women throughout both Judaism and Christendom. Paul,
himself a once vehemently anti-Christian Jew, wrote in the bible: ‘A woman
should learn in quietness and full submission. I don’t permit a woman to teach
or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. For Adam was formed first,
then Eve. And Adam wasn’t the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived
and became a sinner, but women shall be saved through childbearing.’ (I Tim.
2:11-5)
Again, the Islamic conception of woman is radically
different. The Quran clarifies that Satan was the only deceiver in the story
of the Garden, while Adam and Eve receive equal blame for their disobedience. There
is not the slightest hint that Eve was the first to eat the forbidden fruit or
that she tempted Adam to do so. Both Adam and Eve committed a sin, asked God
for His Forgiveness, and He duly bestowed it:
“They said: ‘Our Lord! We have wronged our own souls and if
You forgive us not and do not bestow upon us Your Mercy, we shall certainly be
lost.” (Quran 7:22-23)
Linguistically, the Quranic terms for ‘womb’ and ‘mercy’
are synonymous. This is because, rather than God’s punishment, childbirth in
Islam is seen as one of His countless blessings. Besides, the notion that God
condemns the innocent is quite blasphemous! And, while Christianity holds
every newborn baby to be a sinner - the fruits of its mother’s punishment, Islam
teaches that all children are born innocent and sinless upon the fitra:
a natural monotheistic and righteous disposition. Hence, one who embraces
Islam is said to revert back to their natural religion. It is only the child’s
immoral upbringing that converts it into a rebellious sinner.
“Whosoever works evil will not be requited except with its
like; and whosoever works righteousness, whether male or female, and is a true
Believer, such will enter Paradise, wherein they will have provision without
limit.” (Quran 40:40)
Paul’s words, earlier, also show how Eve’s sin was used
to justify limiting women’s educational aspirations. In Islam, however, women
are equal to men in the pursuit of knowledge. The Prophet said:
“The seeking of knowledge is compulsory upon every
(male or female) Muslim.” (Ibn Maja)
Furthermore, the most honored position one can reach in
Muslim society is that of a scholar [Islam has no Priesthood]. The Prophet’s
wife, Aa’isha, from whom leading Companions acquired knowledge, is but one
example of learned women who continue to greatly influence Islamic society. As
were several female teachers of the celebrated sage, warrior and master of the
Islamic sciences, Ibn Taymiyya (d. 1328).
“…Are those who know equal to those who know not? It is only
those with understanding who will remember.” (Quran 39:9)
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